Whoa, it’s been a while since I’ve posted anything on this
little blog of mine. And it’s not as though it hasn’t been on the back of my
mind. Because it absolutely has. I feel a little twinge of guilt each time I
opt to do something else in favor of writing. It’s no excuse, because life is
busy for everyone, but I feel as though I’ve been moving a million miles a
minute these past few months. And with a new addition to the family – more on
that to come – spare time has been hard to come by. But I’m hoping I still have
a few readers left after this over-a-month hiatus. And even if I don’t, I’ll
still take this time to write down who and what I’m thankful for.
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TXU Turkey Trot - a Thanksgiving morning tradition five years running |
Thanksgiving is my absolute favorite holiday – great food,
family time, many of my friends are all in the same city, a little vacay from
the chaos of high school freshmen, and the best part of all, a reason to give
thanks. It’s something I should – and I really do try! – to practice every day,
but I’m glad for an excuse to reflect on what I am truly thankful for. I read an article the other day that focused on the importance of choosing to be grateful, especially for the seemingly small things. I absolutely loved that reminder. It's easy to be thankful for the big, important things, but some days, it's all you have to be thankful for the chocolate chips in your morning yogurt. And now, it's time for what has turned into a yearly tradition - what I'm thankful for.
I’m thankful for a job. And not just a job, but a job that I
absolutely love. I firmly believe that I get to teach the best kids (most of
the time) at the best school with the very best people. It’s funny to think
back to a year ago, when I was saying these things, because I thought it was
selfish of me to not like my job, but not actually meaning them. This year, I really and truly mean them. Sure,
there are days where I question my sanity – who voluntarily spends a majority
of their day with 15-year-olds? But I’m at a place where I love going to work
each day, and that’s not something everyone gets to say. My students work hard, they make me proud, they make me
sigh, they make me laugh, and just the other day I was sitting on a desk with
my class of 34, reading and discussing Book 9 of The Odyssey, when it hit me that I’ve really got the best job in the
world. And then there are days when you kick two students out in the first five
minutes but hey, you can’t win them all.
On that same note, I’m thankful for a classroom to call my
own. It may be 95 degrees and rising one day, and 50 degrees with the air conditioning
blowing the next, but what a difference having your own classroom makes. And I
even have a window. So I must be doing something right in the BHS world.
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From a classroom-on-a-cart to... |
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A room with a view |
I’m thankful for the opportunity to stay involved with the
sport that gave me so much as a player. Being a coach is hard, and I’d be lying
if I said I knew what I was doing more than half the time. But that means I never
stop learning, and it has made me want to go back to each and every one of my
coaches throughout the years to tell them just how much I appreciate them, and
all of the hard work that they put in to not only teaching me the sport of
volleyball or basketball or soccer, but for teaching me the value of hard work,
a good attitude, and demonstrating good sportsmanship. I absolutely love taking
off my teaching hat and putting on my coaching hat. I love to think that I can
be a role model for at least one of the girls, the way that so many of my
coaches were for me. My girls exhausted me and made me laugh and taught me new
dance moves and worked really, really hard, and they made the long days at
school 100% worth it.
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Proud of my girls for owning the 90's apparel |
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When former players come back to visit |
And to add to that, I’m thankful to work with the very best
coaching crew around. To Ap, Todd, and Melissa, you guys are the greatest, and I
just love working with you guys! You guys are patient with me, you encourage
me, you’re always there to teach me the coaching ropes, and with all of the
time that we spend together, I never get tired of being around y’all. And that’s
a rarity. You guys make coaching fun!
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We also take up eight seats on the bench |
I think I say this every year, but this year I’m especially
thankful for two healthy legs that allow me to run. Training for a marathon is
no easy feat, but I am constantly amazed by my body and how it carries me to
new distances. This past weekend I ran my longest distance to date – 15.5 miles
– and I honestly felt as though I could have run all day. I didn’t, but I like
to say that I could have completed at least one more loop around Memorial
Drive. The shin splints back in February and March that kept me on the sideline
for a few weeks were so hard for me, because running is my very favorite “me
time.” It’s time to think and process and shake things off, so not a run goes
by where I’m not grateful for two strong, healthy legs. Even if my volleyball
players tell me that “I have big legs.” I’ll take them.
I’m thankful for the greatest friends in all the land. From
Houston to Dallas to Corpus Christi to Austin to New York City to Chicago to
San Francisco to Uganda; from teaching to accounting to medical school to
banking to law school to fashion design, we cover lots of fields in lots of
areas. And I’m learning that the real world makes it hard to keep in touch
sometimes. Life gets in the way, and suddenly it’s been weeks since I’ve asked
my friends how they’re doing, or since I’ve caught up with them over frozen
yogurt. But no matter the distance, and no matter the varying interests, each
one of them has given me so much – laughter, advice, hugs, walks, late night
chats, encouraging texts – and I’m just not sure what I would do without y’all.
I’m thankful for the gift of travel, and along with that,
new experiences. It goes without saying that teaching is a travel-lover’s dream
job, and I’m thankful for the greatest summer of discovering new places and trying
new things. I posted about this before, but scuba diving was something I never
thought I would do. Ever. It scared the heck out of me, so when Cheyney called me
and asked me if I wanted to get scuba certified with her, I couldn’t believe I
was actually saying yes. But I think the fact that it was an excuse to travel
to Cozumel had a little something to do with it. And I fell in love with the
sport, and I hope wherever I travel to this summer grants me the opportunity to
explore the underwater world. And maybe it wasn’t quite as adventurous, but I
am thankful all the same for a cousin who let me invade his studio apartment in
the heart of New York City. I fell in love with the city that never sleeps (don’t
worry, I absolutely did), and I certainly couldn’t have experienced all that I did
without a cousin who gave me a place to stay.
That gives me the perfect opportunity to segway into family.
Wow, have I got the best family around. Call me biased, but I think they’re the
best. From the moment we were born, my parents have always centered their lives
around my brother and me. Always doing what was best for us, always redoing
their schedules so that we could do what we wanted to do. And they never gave
it a second thought. And I never really realized how much they sacrificed. How hard
it can be to drop your daughter off for 6am basketball practice, to then pick
me up immediately after school and drive 30 minutes (without traffic) to volleyball
practice three nights a week. To shuttle me from Girl Scout meetings to swim
team practice to YoungLife, and making sure I ate a (somewhat) healthy dinner
along the way. Who put aside their own desires to take trips with me to Indiana
and Minnesota for volleyball tournaments, and to Cooperstown for baseball tournaments.
Who gave their kids the world, and who still give their kids the world. You
guys are the greatest support system, and I’m truly not sure where I would be
without you.
And remember that new addition to the family? World, meet
Mack Tomlinson. My 13-week-old beagle puppy. Who has brought me more joy than I
ever thought possible. Who has given me puncture wounds and kept me up at
night, but who has taught me what love really is. I love being his mom – taking
him on walks, playing with him, chasing after him, and giving him his forever
home. When I was just beginning to think about calling him mine, my dad told
me, “Kel, you realize this is a 15-year commitment, right?” The best commitment
I ever could have made. He’s got endless energy and floppy ears that will break
hearts one day. He’s friendly and loving and I’m just so glad he’s mine.
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Yes, he's named after Mack Brown |
I’m thankful for a roof over my head, a car that gets me
from point A to point B, KSBJ Monday morning texts, sunshine and fall weather,
health and happiness, and a God who continues to chase after me, even when he’s
far from the front of my mind. For friends who hold me accountable, for warm
socks and fuzzy blankets, for Longhorn football and dairy-free chocolate.
For
time to read every now and again,
for volunteer opportunities, for
traffic-filled commutes that let me jam to my favorite music, and for my beloved
KitchenAid Stand Mixer. For words of affirmation and immature jokes, for mentors, and for a glass
of white wine after a long, long day. For hope in a world that is so often
broken, for those who fight selflessly for our freedom.
For a wise vet who
takes good care of my sweet Mack, for days when I get to see the sun rise and
set, for group texts, and last but not least, for all of YOU for continuing to
read this blog. I’m great about posting, and then I neglect it for a month. But
your kind words about it – big and small – mean so much to me. So, here’s to a
blogging comeback!
I hope you all enjoy a fabulous Thanksgiving – full of
family and loved ones, friends, delicious food (wear your stretchy pants!), and
football (Hook’em Horns!). Spend a little bit of time thinking about what you’re
thankful for – because it's so much more life-giving to focus on what you do have, rather than on what you don't.